std::set custom comparator for 2D points

I need a list of non-duplicated 2D points, so I use a std::set with a custom comparison function. The function I use has problems after inserting points because sometimes the std::find does not find the already inserted points.

const double tolerance = 0.1;
struct MyPoint2D
{
  MyPoint2D(double x, double y) : _x(x), _y(y) {}
  double _x, _y;
};
auto compMyPoint2D = [&](const MyPoint2D& pointA, const MyPoint2D& pointB) -> bool
{
  if (pointA._x < pointB._x - tolerance) return true;
  if (pointA._x > pointB._x + tolerance) return false;
  if (pointA._y < pointB._y - tolerance) return true;
  return false;
};
std::set<MyPoint2D, decltype(compMyPoint2D)> orderedMyPoints(compMyPoint2D);
MyPoint2D pointA(0.66,1.14);
MyPoint2D pointB(0.75, 0.0);
MyPoint2D pointC(0.57,1.19);
orderedMyPoints.insert(pointA);
orderedMyPoints.insert(pointB);
orderedMyPoints.insert(pointC);
if (orderedMyPoints.find(pointC)==orderedMyPoints.end())
{
  std::cout << "Not found" << std::endl;
  orderedMyPoints.insert(pointC);
  if (orderedMyPoints.find(pointC)==orderedMyPoints.end())
    std::cout << "Still not found" << std::endl;
}

Would I need to preorder the 2d points before inserting into the std::set or there is a better comparison function for 2d points?

I need to use std::find after inserting all points to obtain the final point indexes.

I'm using native C++ on Microsoft Visual Studio 2010.